Reciprocity is one of the key principles of human relationships. When we receive a gift, we often feel the urge to give something in return. If someone invites us to their home, it seems natural to invite them back. Gratitude frequently follows kind words and deeds.
However, a literal interpretation of reciprocity can lead us astray. It’s not necessary to respond to every smile with another smile or to every compliment with a compliment. This is especially true for acts of kindness: true kindness is selfless and does not seek gratitude or reward. People often say that good deeds eventually come back to us, but that’s not the point. By doing good, we make the world a better place, and our reward is living in a slightly kinder world.
When we expect something in return for our good deeds, we risk disappointment because not everyone notices or appreciates kindness. And that’s okay. True goodness comes from the heart, is unselfish, and brings joy to the giver. It is one of life’s simple yet profound pleasures.
Do good for the sake of doing good – and enjoy the process without expecting anything in return.
Alisher Faizullaev 